Sugar Baby Reveals the Truth about Dating Sugar Daddies
Mark Twain famously said, "Politics, religion and sex should never be discussed at a dinner table". But a successful sugar baby (Emily) couldn't disagree more. She says her success comes from being interesting by talking about "taboo" topics (such as money and sex) with her sugar daddies because most women don't have the courage to do that.
Emily is a 33-year-old woman living in Auckland, New Zealand. Every day she is surrounded by luxury brands such as Dior and Gucci in the city of Auckland, but she couldn't afford it...until a sugar daddy rocks up on a sugar daddy dating site.
"Most women can't talk about money. It is said that most women prefer talking about their sex life instead of talking about money, but all women love money," says Emily, "My sugar daddy thinks I'm unique because I can talk about money without being awkward."
Emily's current sugar daddy is a 40-year-old mature guy who runs a successful hotel in Auckland. As a multi-millionaire, he buys Emily expensive gifts instead of giving her allowance.
"My sugar daddy feels less used when he gives me gifts rather than allowance," says Emily, "But that's okay. My favorite things in this world are Dior bags and Gucci clothes, so I'm very happy with what I've got in my current sugar lifestyle. My sugar daddy also loves using luxury products himself, so he often goes shopping with me. I really appreciate the time we've spent together."
According to Emily, this rich guy isn't her first sugar daddy. Before meeting this generous man, Emily was dating another sugar daddy who gave her allowance regularly. She says that guy ended the arrangement because he wasn't happy with Emily's performance in the bedroom.
"My ex sugar daddy is a Scorpio, so sex is very important to him. He wanted me to play the submissive role in the bedroom, but that's not my style. I don't want to do something that I don't enjoy doing in bed. For a Scorpio man, a relationship isn't sustainable if sex isn't right, which is understandable. I don't blame him at all because he gave me a lot of allowance when we were dating," says Emily, "I totally enjoyed that arrangement as well as the allowance was a lot."
Emily has kindly shared her secret with us - her ex sugar daddy gave her $3,000 per month. That basically means she didn't need to get a day job. Yet she is never unemployed - she can save all her allowance for her future.
"A lot of women don't know how to manage their money properly. Although I love luxury brands and only want to use high-quality products, I rarely use my own money to buy those things. As a woman, I must figure out a way to leverage my beauty so that men will buy expensive gifts for me. The key is to give what rich men want and know how to express my gratitude so that wealthy men want to spoil me," says Emily, "I never take my sugar daddies for granted. And that is so key!"
A suggestion that Emily would like to give new-born babies is that dating a sugar daddy is a skill that can be learned. You won't be successful in the sugar bowl if you are just a pretty girl - you must have other capabilities, e.g. marvelous conversation skills, beautiful personality, outstanding wisdom and intelligence as well as the ability to handle money well. "If you can't handle money correctly, you won't become successful even though you are able to date wealthy sugar daddies who are happy to spoil you," says Emily, "Make sure you read books about dating as well as finances!"
Indeed, living a sugar lifestyle successfully requires real skills. Are you also a capable sugar baby like Emily?